Hey. I’m currently using Tailscale with a self hosted control server(headscale). The problem’s that when the control server goes down for several days(Internet outage, here, in Iran), the clients get lost. And I have to come up with a new control server.
So I’m looking for a solution similar to Tailscale+Headscale, but with decentralized control server and relay.
Note that raw wireguard is not a solution. As some clients are(or might be) behind NATs. And then they will either need hole punching or a relay.


I recently started using rayfish:
https://rayfish.xyz/
Its new and very active, but also the dev uses AI. Its hard to tell where it might go but its de-centralized, it doesn’t need a control server and simply works device to device.
Me stance on AI is neutral for now. Though, for meself, I try to keep away from it for intelligent tasks. However, rayfish looks very promising.