Mothra@mander.xyztoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•Do you expect people to remember your birthday, or do you just let them know when it's coming up?
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20 hours agoIf they’re close friends and family I definitely expect them to remember. It’s a good indicator of who I can trust in my life as well, those who usually remember just also happen to be on the trustworthy list.
For me it correlates so yes. I’m not saying one is necessarily caused by the other.
Conversely, I set up birthday reminders for the people I care about.