Heading is different from already being there.

If you checked out those tankie instances or listened to them in your home instance for just a few minutes, you wouldn’t have to ask lol.

.world still federates with .ml and man those guys can have the most braindead takes… and they’re one of the more reasonable tankie instances.

It was for a time, back in the 50s & 60s. From what I’ve heard bosses would try and set up their unmarried junior employees with a ‘good match’ too, sometimes.