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Cake day: April 22nd, 2023

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  • I’ve been one of the women in that situation where a guy makes a mistake and walks into the ladies room accidentally (multiple times.) I’ve never once thought they were weird. Neither did any of the friends I was in there with. You’re just fine; you didn’t do anything wrong. It happens to everyone! Don’t sweat it. :) 🫂


  • Hey, that’s really similar to how mine is! Minus the slurs, thankfully, lol. But I get it.

    Right now, in my head, it’s a mix of Rump Shaker by Wreckx-N-Effect and Smells Like Teen Spirit by Nirvana except that the lyrics are re-written to be horrible and mean to me, about hating myself, telling me to kill myself, I should be hit by a car, I should be stabbed in the face, etc. I am not a healthy person. :D There’s usually plenty of dark/low humor and fucked up jokes I’d never say thrown in there, too. There’s also often a voice that goes “hey, that’s not helpful, be nice to yourself! You wouldn’t treat anyone else this way!” 'cause I really am trying to be better. That and like a shotgun blast of a million other different trains of thought mixed in. It’s chaotic in there.




  • I usually take stuff to sleep and can’t remember my dreams. This is one of the first time I have naturally fell asleep and stayed asleep in well over a month!

    This is probably a factor! It’s super common to suddenly have intense, vivid, memorable dreams (when you usually don’t) after continually using sleep aides and then stopping them. It can even happen with just marijuana. Brains are weird! I’ve experienced the same thing. You’re not alone.


  • If the shape or look of it is important to you, you may want to mention that in your post with the other info (not everyone reads through all the comments before commenting themselves.) Maybe give an example of what you do like? That way it’s more likely that someone will help find what you’re looking for, and less likely that you’ll get a ton of suggestions for mice you’re not looking for :)


  • Yeah, I’m pretty sure it is. I have this issue with any images uploaded directly to/hosted by lemmy.zip. I think it’s because your instance saves them as .avif files now, which I hadn’t even heard of until I started trying to figure out the issue, and I don’t think I’ve yet seen any other instances that do so. I have to open the images/posts in a full-on web browser to see them. I think some devices and apps just don’t know how to display them. It’s not your fault, you didn’t do anything wrong. Just technology being wonky :)







  • Yeah, same here. :( Which extra sucks because I’m disabled and have chronic pain, and a nice bath helped with some of it. But I’m just too long! & 'cause of the aforementioned disabilities, I can’t afford a place with a suitable tub. Buuut it’s better than being homeless, so I can’t complain too much, haha!

    I feel for you, and I hope you’re able to work out a proper tub situation that works for you soon! :)



  • Sweeeet! Nice work. & Thanks for sharing it with us! I look forward to seeing more updates, if ya feel like sharing. This type of thing is so neat, but I’m not able to do it myself, so I kind of live vicariously through people like you who share it with others. So, thank you! :)