Others have offered fantastic advice, I’m not going to add anything from personal experience. I will share this link: https://fs.blog/david-foster-wallace-this-is-water/

Reading this isn’t going to change your life, but I find it very helpful to reframe how you think about life. It deals more with the long term impact of having a full time job, outside of work in a way that worked for my brain. Hopefully you find it helpful but it’s not a single solution.

Seeing the public reaction to some of the military adjacent cases over the past few years has been incredibly disheartening (e.g. McBride)

I’m dreading the day my current wagon (a 2000s beamer) kicks the bucket. There haven’t been many commuter class wagons released in a long time, at least where I live. All replaced with SUVs and over sized utes.

Say W really slowly out loud and count the syllables. Where do you live that W isn’t three syllables?