Work to develop emotional stability and security in being oneself. For me, that was many years of therapy learning to love myself. I got there in 2019, but the work continues. I’m the healthiest, mentally and emotionally, that I’ve ever been in my life. I truly did not believe I could ever make it as far as I have on this journey.

Is their friend my friend or me?

Partner and kitties. When they (kitties) aren’t screaming at me while I’m on the phone for work while wfh. So fucking rude. That’s sarcasm. No one seems able to infer it anymore.

Dems of today are Nixonian conservatives. He gave us Legacy of Parks.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legacy_of_Parks

Planet from the Daft Punk video with the blue aliens was going through an apocalypse. I woke up crying.

Not quite one and a half megabytes. Otherwise, one point three two.

First outloud chuckle of the day. Still smiling.

Seek help from a trusted adult. Teacher, parent of a friend that you trust, wherever you can.

I wanted to be in a famous rock band. It was reasonable to tell me that was highly unlikely. Unless your goals are like that, screw them and do what makes you happy.

Starvation.

Imagine high school with social media and deepfakes. I couldn’t be happier to have missed out on that.

Every month to couple of months. Depends on who’s coming to town. We might go to two shows in a week and not have anyone we like come through for a while, or maybe we go to one and then another the next month. But it averages out to a bit more than every other month. Well, more I think.

Gonna see Acid Bath in June. Holy shit. And Bloody Beetroots in nine days.

I had one of the most desirable jobs in my field. It was one that everyone thought was very cool when I was asked. I got burnt out. I was sad and depressed every day. When I was done with work, I didn’t want to do anything that required energy. I just sat and watched tv or similar. That’s burnt out.

I am extremely lazy at my current job. It’s a pretty easy job, but I resent being assigned more responsibility (happened the other day). The added responsibility isn’t that difficult and only happens one day per week, but I’m still annoyed. After work, I pretty much scroll Lemmy and watch streaming content, but I don’t feel used up; I’m just lazy. That’s lazy.

The difference is when you can’t do more vs you choose to do less. It’s subjective. Good luck!

My bad, apologies.

Oh, sorry, my bad.

If they mistreat you before anything actually takes shape, it’ll be worse in a relationship. Some people are severely underdeveloped emotionally and don’t even know why they behave as they do. I was like this when I was young. It’s taken decades of therapy and working on myself to be emotionally healthy. Find another.

NUC? Check http://minisforum.com/.

People downvoting a post asking for help have very weak egos. I hope you’re able to find a better Linux experience, OP.

It’s all I use on my butthole for a reason: extreme stupidity.

Yes, thank you.