• Hudell@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Eating Asian food using forks. Preparing meat well-done. Cutting pasta with a knife. Using cutlery when eating pizza. Basically everything that people say has a “right way” of eating. What difference does it make to you if you’re not the one eating?

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      Once you’ve seen kids try to eat soup with their hands, you’ll start enforcing stupid rules too. On one hand, I don’t care in the slightest about ‘etiquette’ but God help me, stop using your offhand to shovel pasta into a spoon and then dropping half of it. Sit up straight, utensil over your plate and put your utensil down when you’re not using it.

      But, like, put pineapple on pizza and enjoy your steak how you want it.

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    Might be controversial but: the whole Israel/Gaza stuff.

    I don’t know much about it. It seems super complicated and controversial. I even realize that it’s controversial not to have an opinion on this topic!

    But I really can’t get myself to have an opinion on something that I am clearly no expert in, something that frequently seems to lead people into arguments with others and something that, sorry to say, really doesn’t affect me at all in my life. There are wars all over the world, dunno why this one is the one people have such strong opinion about.

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      Pretty easy to motivate your own learning:

      1. Does your nation fund or is complicit in supporting Israel?
      2. Are your tax dollars being used to vaporize children?
      3. Now do you have an opinion, or at least are willing to watch a documentary or something?
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            Honestly I would rather say “I don’t know” than adopt some random opinion from some AI bot. And I think you should prefer people saying “I don’t know” rather than just following what the AI bots are saying. Do you really want AI bots to decide this stuff?

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              whoooosh

              it was sarcasm. TBF it wasn’t obvious, I wish we lived in a world when it still was.

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              I want you to repeat that to yourself, slowly.

              Is it just that you only care when it starts happening to you? Or is it just that since you do not know yet, you simply cannot know or care? Why not just shock your brain to forget everything that bothers you, you’ll be so happy!

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                Is it just that you only care when it starts happening to you?

                not really. there are things that affect me and i care about, things that affect me and i don’t care about, things that don’t affect me that i care about and things that don’t affect be that i don’t care about. so there are things on all 4 possible categories, and this particular subject simply falls in the last one

                Or is it just that since you do not know yet, you simply cannot know or care?

                well i already know there is a war between israel and palestine and people are getting bombed. yet it doesn’t really occupy that much space in my mind, and i’m indifferent towards that, there are enough things to care about besides that

                Why not just shock your brain to forget everything that bothers you

                well i just don’t want to do that. i am ok with caring about the things that bother me

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      yeah besides a “it would be nice if there was peace” i can’t say i care about it to the point of spending the time to form an informed opinion

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      Yes, there is a long and complicated history, but it is irrelevant in the face of a very active ongoing genocide. I accept that you could somehow not be exposed to enough information to be able to see that, but it is still shocking not to be able to form an opinion on ethnic cleansing and genocide. I suppose it is the product of propaganda and the culture war.

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    Celebrity gossip. I find it really difficult to care about what some celebrity said about something.

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      wait this seems like a strong opinion that celebrity gossip isn’t interesting. wouldn’t the neutral position here be that you would like to know what’s going on with your fave celebs but don’t go out of your way?

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          I’ve never gotten this either. Having an artist who’s work you enjoy and follow because they have a history of making something you like? Sure, but beyond that why care?

          It’s not like an actor magically has a good talk on anything or is an expert on anything. They’re just famous.

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          oh no i can, i cbf about celebrities personally. I was just being pedantic as to whether the top reply here matches the prompt

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      For me personally, I don’t like it. However, I do still have a strong opinion on it. I think it’s a fantastic flavor combination! It’s a nice combination of salty, sweet, and savory. If a professional chef were making a pizza, and they had never heard of one before, something like the Hawaiian pizza is what I’d expect them to make. I don’t really like pineapple though, so it’s not for me.

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    I think powerscaling is stupid so any powerscaling discussion beyond “this is stupid” is not something I feel strongly about

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      I generally agree, but I can make one exception: when there’s a clear power system it can be fun to talk about how one power would fare against another. Not so much scaling the characters themselves but pitching their powers’ themes against one another, like some advanced rock-paper-scissors thing. One Piece used to allow for things like this at one point, (before new power systems were included) like rubber > thunder > ice > rubber.

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    Who or what is “the best” of something. Any genre I can think of: Sports, art, food, engineering, design, whatever. Or I guess I kind of do, if you have some wild take that I don’t understand at all, but the discussions where people are like “lebron or kobe?” or “poe or shakesspeare?” I just do not get. “What’s the best anime?” eh. There’s no best of anything, it’s all just a matter of definition.

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    i genuinely dont care about gender at all. I’ll fight tooth and nail for my trans brothers and sisters but in a perfect world I’d never think about it even a little

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      I’m the same. I have to be careful how I phrase things because it can sound transphobic if like someone asks you what you are and you just say “Well I have x genitals so just go with that I guess?” because you just don’t care. Like call me whatever you want. want me to wear a certain type of clothing because of some social convention? Sure idc. I’ll wear a dress, or a suit. Don’t care. I just don’t want to pay for them. I 100% support anyone doing anything they want with their gender. Let me know what you want to be called, and remind me if I slip up because I don’t even remember peoples names most of the time, but I’ll say what you want me to say. But for me personally? You can call me anything you want. He, Her, They, It, Dumbass, Tankie, .ml, shut the fuck up, etc It don’t bother me one bit.

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          Probably. I dont feel the need for a word for it tho. It’s not something I think about much. I just do whatever I feel like doing. I hear people talk about things like dysphoria and it just doesn’t compute to me. I’ve never been shot but I can imagine what being shot would be like, right? I can’t imagine what dysphoria would be like. If I imagine myself as the opposite biological sex its just like a logistical challenge. How do I use the bathroom. I need different hygeine products. Stuff like that. It doesn’t bother me.

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        This is exactly where I am as well. “I just don’t want to pay for them” is so real lol.

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    People putting pineapple on their pizza.

    Whatever man. Some people like opera music. Some people like golden showers. And some people like putting pineapple on their pizza. Can’t we all just get along?