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  • andros_rex@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldI want
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    20 hours ago

    No, he’s offering to do what he wants to do.

    Reasserting this. I have a vulva and HATE receiving oral. I am up front about this - it is not taking time to pleasure me, it does not feel good to me. I have still had men whine, or start doing it anyway, or bitch about it.

    Offering an unwanted sex act is not a kindness. Anyone who thinks that it is does not have the understanding of consent or human sexuality that is necessary to participate in sex.