• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    I remember being told by a middle-aged co-worker back when I was 19 or 20 that I’m just young and that’s why I have left wing views and when I’m her age, I’ll be a Republican.

    I’m now around her age and still not a Republican.

    • C A B B A G E@feddit.uk
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      I’m 35. The older I’ve got the more I’ve understood about the world and the more left wing I’ve become.

      The best part is it all started because as a religious child I got into red letter stuff, and took “love thy neighbour” to heart.

  • Beldarofremulak@discuss.online
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    8 days ago

    My mom still hasn’t explained all those joke she was going to “tell me when I get older”. Parents lie and they don’t feel bad about it

  • Flamekebab@piefed.social
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    Now that I’m older I understand an awful lot of what they didn’t explain and am still baffled by stuff they said I’d understand.

  • GooberEar@lemmy.wtf
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    Here’s the raw truth, as I understand it. I’m one of the people who has used this phrase. Typically I pull it out when I absolutely lack the ability to explain and verbalize something in a way that the intended audience can understand and accept. Yes, it’s a failing on my part, but also, despite what everyone wants to believe, not everything can be distilled down to a simple easily understandable explanation without losing the message. You’ll probably understand when you get older.

    Realistically, it’s not so much a guarantee that you’ll understand the exact nature of what I’m saying when you’re older. It’s more that when you’re older, you’re probably going to be more willing to accept that I have my own perfectly valid reasons, even if I can’t articulate them effectively, that the world is complicated, and sometimes it’s those complicated and difficult to articulate threads that are actually the only things holding everything together. So, when I say you’ll understand when you’re older, I might not mean that in the most literal sense, it’s very likely that I’m speaking more in a metaphorical way.

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    A lot of times the understanding is just that none of the adults actually knew what the fuck they were doing.